130
cards
General
everyday chatter
General conversation cards covering everyday topics like weather, interests, food, technology, fitness, and daily life.
4 can fail
Game Guide · Together Cards
ParalivesTogether Cards
the social hand you play
All 442 Together Cards across 13 categories. 87 cards with success chances, 180s cooldown between uses.
Core social mechanic
How Together Cards work
draw a hand, pick a card
When Parafolk gather, the game draws a hand of Together Cards based on their personalities, emotions, and relationships. The hand size depends on group size: 3 cards for 1-3 People, 2 cards for 4-5 People, 1 cards for 6+ People. Each card has a weight that determines how likely it is to appear, and some cards require specific personality traits or emotional states.
4 weight tiers
Card weights & timing
who deals next
- NormalWeight 1 · NPC 1x
- ImportantWeight 2 · NPC 5x
- Very ImportantWeight 3 · NPC 10x
- Extremely ImportantWeight 4 · NPC 100x
Cooldown: 180s between same card. Bar fill: 20 min (known) / 5 min (strangers).
Browse all 13 categories
Together Card categories
thirteen flavours89
cards
Flirty
spark something
Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.
72 can fail
48
cards
Mean
twist the knife
Hostile interaction cards for insulting, mocking, arguing with, or being rude to other Parafolk.
35
cards
Skills
level up together
Cards that let Parafolk discuss, share tips about, or show off their learned skills like piano, guitar, painting, or fitness.
33
cards
Introduction
say hello
First-meeting cards used when Parafolk introduce themselves to strangers, with personality-flavored variants.
3 can fail4 personality
24
cards
Baby
new arrival
Cards specifically for interactions involving babies and toddlers, including baby talk, peek-a-boo, and singing lullabies.
23
cards
Funny
make them laugh
Joke-telling cards that can succeed or fail based on personality and mood. Includes puns, dark jokes, and comedy routines.
19
cards
Share Tips
pass it on
Cards for sharing knowledge and tips about skills with other Parafolk, helping them learn faster.
7 can fail
17
cards
Complain
vent it out
Cards for complaining and venting about problems, bad moods, work issues, or unsatisfying situations.
9
cards
Relationship Milestone
next chapter
Special cards that trigger when a relationship reaches a new level, marking milestones like becoming friends or best friends.
6
cards
Get to Know
dig deeper
Cards for getting to know other Parafolk by asking about their job, family, vibe, or relationship status.
5
cards
Request
ask politely
Request cards where one Parafolk asks another for something specific, like lending money or doing a favor.
4
cards
Brag
show off
Cards for boasting about achievements, showing off skills, or proudly sharing accomplishments with others.
1 can fail
Category rankings
Biggest categories & success-chance leaders
top of the pileTop 6 by card count
Most cards
Categories where cards can fail
Most success-chance cards
Frequently asked
Together Cards FAQ
quick answersWhat are Together Cards in Paralives?
Together Cards are the core social interaction system in Paralives. When two or more Parafolk are together, the game draws a hand of cards representing possible conversation topics and actions. Players pick a card to steer the interaction. There are 442 cards across 13 categories in Early Access build 1.
How many Together Card categories are there in Paralives?
There are 13 Together Card categories: General (130 cards), Flirty (89), Mean (48), Skills (35), Introduction (33), Baby (24), Funny (23), Share Tips (19), Complain (17), Relationship Milestone (9), Get to Know (6), Request (5), and Brag (4).
How does card weight affect Together Cards?
Each Together Card has a weight tier that affects how likely it is to appear. Normal cards have weight 1 and 1x NPC initiative. Important cards have weight 2 and 5x NPC initiative. Very Important cards have weight 3 and 10x NPC initiative. Extremely Important cards have weight 4 and 100x NPC initiative.
Do personality traits affect which Together Cards appear?
Yes. Some Together Cards require specific personality traits. For example, certain Introduction cards are only available to Parafolk with the Overjoyed, Serious, or Gloomy vibe traits. Personality-gated cards create more authentic social interactions tied to each character's identity.
What is the cooldown between Together Cards in Paralives?
After a Together Card is used, there is a 180-second (3-minute) cooldown before that same card can appear again. Some cards ignore or override this cooldown. The Together bar takes 20 minutes to fill for known Parafolk and only 5 minutes for strangers.
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Data extracted from Paralives Early Access game files (build 1). Stats and counts verified against the shipped catalog.