Flirty
89 in the deck
Drop frequency
Weight distribution
who shows up most
Important
44
(49%)
Normal
24
(27%)
Very Important
12
(13%)
Extremely Important
9
(10%)
89 cards
All Flirty cards
the full deck
Ask if single (flirty)Type: ContextualNormalTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Lover
FlirtType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Mention having a good timeType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Compliment VibeType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Attempt risky pick-up lineType: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
Ask if they would like someone in their lifeType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
First kissType: Standard ยท Base chance: 999%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Kissing Partners + Relationship: Romantic InterestOutcomes: Embarrassed+1Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+3
Get intimate for the first timeType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Intimacy Partners + Relationship: Romantic InterestOutcomes: Embarrassed+1Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+3
Ask to be in a relationship togetherType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Lover + Relationship: Romantic Interest + Relationship: Not [Fiancรฉe|Fiancรฉ|Betrothed] + Relationship: Not SpouseOutcomes: Embarrassed+1Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+3
Introduce yourself in a flirty mannerType: Standard ยท Ignores cooldown ยท Cooldown: 0s ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2
Ask about love lifeType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Talk about relationshipsType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Ask for dating adviceType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Express love life goalsType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%NormalCan failTargeted
Share detailed future love life plansType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious
Talk about hormones and oxytocinType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious
Share long list of criteria for ideal partnerType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious
Share complete romantic historyType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious
Get them excited about love life goalsType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Overjoyed
Share dream love life plansType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Overjoyed
Admit being extremely attractedType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Overjoyed
Share a romantic but morbid storyType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Gloomy
Whisper sweet nothingsType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Gloomy
Give gloomy complimentType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Gloomy
Mock people's dating habitsType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: (Personality: Grumpy AND Personality: Gloomy)
Share love life goals excitedlyType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: EnergeticOutcomes: Together Bar Speed X3
Come up with the perfect pickup lineType: Standard ยท Base chance: 25%ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Energetic
Talk about romantic songType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music
Talk about favorite love songType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music
Talk about gaining muscle recentlyType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness
Compliment muscle gainType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness
Discuss best restaurants for first datesType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food
Discuss best food for a date nightType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food
Talk about dating appsType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Technology
Debate about best โspicyโ classic paintingsType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: ArtRequires: Other: Personality: Art
Mention wanting to draw a portrait of themType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Art
Attempt risky flirty jokeType: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
Attempt to gauge interest (risky)Type: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
Confess attractionType: StandardImportantCan failTargeted
Mention loving spending time togetherType: StandardImportantCan failTargeted
Compliment personalityType: StandardImportantCan failTargeted
Compliment talents and skillsType: StandardImportantCan failTargeted
Hint at physical intimacyType: StandardImportantCan failTargeted
Look at tenderlyType: StandardImportantCan failTargeted
Share favorite music when getting intimateType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music
Talk about having romantic thoughts when listening to musicType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music
Brag about being in shapeType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness
Hint at physical attractionType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness
Mention wanting to cook for themType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food
Joke about them looking tastyType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food
Discuss the role of technology in modern relationshipsType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Technology
Joke about wanting to ''study'' their curvesType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Art
Mention being artistically inspired by themType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Art
Compliment outfit (flirty)Type: ContextualNormalCan failTargeted
Compliment hairstyle (flirty)Type: ContextualNormalCan failTargeted
Compliment mood (flirty)Type: ContextualNormalCan failTargeted
Compliment muscles (flirty)Type: ContextualNormalCan failTargeted
Impress with charismatic pickup lineType: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
Impress with good physiqueType: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
Impress with creativityType: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
Impress intellectuallyType: StandardNormalCan failTargeted
ProposeType: StandardExtremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: ((Relationship: Lover))Requires: Other: Relationship: Not Spouse + Relationship: Not [Fiancรฉe|Fiancรฉ|Betrothed]Outcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2Outcomes: Together Card Happy+2
Invite to move inType: StandardExtremely ImportantCan failTargetedOutcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2
Ask if they want to try for a baby NOWType: StandardExtremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: ((Relationship: Lover))Outcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2
Propose (with ring)Type: StandardExtremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancรฉe|Fiancรฉ|Betrothed] + Relationship: Not SpouseOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2Outcomes: Together Card Happy+2Outcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2
Offer flowersType: ResponseVery ImportantCan failTargeted
Say โI love youโType: StandardVery ImportantTargeted
Go for a passionate kissType: StandardVery ImportantTargetedOutcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+1Outcomes: Just Got Intimate Or Kissed
Reminisce about first meetingType: StandardVery ImportantTargeted
Talk about time spent togetherType: StandardVery ImportantTargeted
Enjoy romantic time playing music togetherType: StandardVery ImportantTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: MusicRequires: Personality: Music
Enjoy romantic time exercising togetherType: StandardVery ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: FitnessRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Fitness
Enjoy romantic time using technology togetherType: StandardVery ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: TechnologyRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Technology
Enjoy romantic time making art togetherType: StandardVery ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: ArtRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Art
Wink knowinglyType: StandardVery ImportantTargeted
Say they'd make a good co-parentType: StandardExtremely ImportantTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Good with FamilyOutcomes: Happy+2Outcomes: Flirty+2
Express how you'll always be there for themType: StandardExtremely ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: Good at Taking Care of OthersOutcomes: Happy+2Outcomes: Flirty+2
Declare unending loveType: StandardExtremely ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsRequires: Personality: OverjoyedOutcomes: Happy+3Outcomes: Flirty+3
Flirt expertlyType: Standard ยท Cooldown: 300sExtremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Expert Flirt
Tell Interesting Date StoryType: StandardVery ImportantRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+1
Share romantic weekend ideaType: StandardVery ImportantRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+1
Random Secret CrushType: ResponseNormalRequires: Other: Personality: Good at Romantic Relationships
Compliment existential dread (flirty)Type: ContextualNormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Emotion: SadOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2
Flirt โas a jokeโType: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Jester
Joke about dating (risky)Type: StandardImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: JesterRequires: Emotion: AmusedOutcomes: Embarrassed+5
Ask if they want to have children together in the futureType: ContextualNormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not Prospective Co-ParentOutcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+4
ProposeType: ContextualNormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancรฉe|Fiancรฉ|Betrothed] + Relationship: Not SpouseOutcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2Outcomes: Together Card Happy+2
Invite to move inType: ContextualNormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: LoverOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+4Outcomes: Together Card Embarrassed+2
Slow danceType: StandardImportantTargetedOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2
Get intimate NOWType: StandardNormalTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Intimacy PartnersRequires: Emotion: Flirty
Try for baby NOWType: ContextualNormalTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Prospective Co-ParentRequires: Emotion: Flirty
72 CARDS CAN FAIL
Success Chance Modifiers
stack the odds
Cards marked โcan failโ roll their base chance plus every matching modifier below. Positive values raise the odds, negative values lower them - all in percentage points.
Flirt
used by 56 cards in this category
+25 Flirt Success+25%
+15 Charisma >= 4
+10 Compatible Vibe Trait
+10 Romantic Relationship Tip
+10 Expert Relationship Tip
+10 Good at Romantic Relationships
+10 Charisma = 3
+5 Romantic Interest (per level)
+5 Talent
+5 target is Flirty
+5 Ex-Lover
+5 Charisma = 2
+3 Friend (per level)
+3 Coworker (per level)
+3 Household Member (per level)
+3 target is Amused
+3 target is Happy
+2 From Get To Know
+1 Good At Making Friends
+1 Sad
+1 Angry
+1 Target Sad
+1 Target Angry
-3 Embarrassed
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Embarrassed
-10 Enemy
-10 Charisma = 0
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Good at Nothing
-20 Incompatible Vibe Trait
-25 They Dont Know Each Other
Risky Flirt
used by 4 cards in this category
+25 Flirt Success+25%
+15 Charisma >= 4
+10 Compatible Vibe Trait
+10 Romantic Relationship Tip
+10 Expert Relationship Tip
+10 Good at Romantic Relationships
+10 Charisma = 3
+5 Romantic Interest (per level)
+5 Talent
+5 target is Flirty
+5 Ex-Lover
+5 Charisma = 2
+3 Friend (per level)
+3 Coworker (per level)
+3 Household Member (per level)
+3 target is Amused
+3 target is Happy
+2 From Get To Know
+1 Sad
+1 Angry
+1 Target Sad
+1 Target Angry
+1 Good At Making Friends
-3 Embarrassed
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Embarrassed
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Enemy
-10 Charisma = 0
-20 Incompatible Vibe Trait
Confirm Relationship
used by 3 cards in this category
+15 Romantic Interest (per level)
+15 Already Had Physical Intimacy
+15 Charisma >= 4
+10 Good at Romantic Relationships
+10 Ex-Lover
+10 Target Had Promotion
+10 Charisma = 3
+5 Charisma = 2
+3 Happy
+3 Inspired
+3 Amused
+1 Sad
+1 Angry
+1 Target Sad
+1 Target Angry
-3 Embarrassed
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Embarrassed
-10 Enemy
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Charisma = 0
Flirty Introduction
used by 1 cards in this category
+25 Flirt Success+25%
+15 Charisma >= 4
+10 Charisma = 3
+10 Compatible Vibe Trait
+10 Romantic Relationship Tip
+10 Expert Relationship Tip
+10 Good at Romantic Relationships
+5 Charisma = 2
+5 Romantic Interest (per level)
+5 Talent
+5 target is Flirty
+5 Ex-Lover
+3 Friend (per level)
+3 Coworker (per level)
+3 Household Member (per level)
+3 target is Amused
+3 target is Happy
+2 From Get To Know
+1 Sad
+1 Angry
+1 Good At Making Friends
+1 Target Sad
+1 Target Angry
-3 Embarrassed
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Embarrassed
-10 Charisma = 0
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Enemy
-10 Good at Nothing
-20 Incompatible Vibe Trait
Commit Relationship
used by 7 cards in this category
+20 Lover (per level)
+15 Charisma >= 4
+10 Good at Romantic Relationships
+10 Ex-Lover
+10 Target Had Promotion
+10 Charisma = 3
+5 Charisma = 2
+3 Happy
+3 Inspired
+3 Amused
+1 Sad
+1 Angry
+1 Target Sad
+1 Target Angry
-3 Embarrassed
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Uncomfortable
-3 Embarrassed
-10 Enemy
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Good at Nothing
-10 Charisma = 0
Related guides
Frequently asked
Flirty FAQ
quick answers
How many flirty Together Cards are in Paralives?
There are 89 flirty Together Cards in Paralives Early Access build 1. 72 of these cards have a success chance and can fail.
What do flirty cards do in Paralives?
Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.
Can flirty cards fail in Paralives?
Yes - 72 of 89 flirty cards have a success chance. When a card fails, the outcome differs from success, often applying different status effects or conversation tags.