Ask if single (flirty)
NormalTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Lover
Type: Contextual
All Together Cards
Flirty Cards
89 in the deck
Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships. Browse all 89 Paralives flirty Together Cards.
Drop frequency
Weight distribution
who shows up mostImportant
44(49%)
Normal
24(27%)
Very Important
12(13%)
Extremely Important
9(10%)
89 cards
All Flirty cards
the full deck89 total
Flirt
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Mention having a good time
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Compliment Vibe
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Attempt risky pick-up line
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Ask if they would like someone in their life
Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
First kiss
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Kissing Partners + Relationship: Romantic Interest
OutcomesEmbarassed+1Together Card Flirty+3
Type: StandardBase chance: 999%
Get intimate for the first time
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Intimacy Partners + Relationship: Romantic Interest
OutcomesEmbarassed+1Together Card Flirty+3
Type: Standard
Ask to be in a relationship together
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Lover + Relationship: Romantic Interest
OutcomesEmbarassed+1Together Card Flirty+3
Type: Standard
Introduce yourself in a flirty manner
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic Relationships
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2
Type: StandardIgnores cooldownCooldown: 0sBase chance: 25%
Ask about love life
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Talk about relationships
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Ask for dating advice
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Express love life goals
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Share detailed future love life plans
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Talk about hormones and oxytocin
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Share long list of criteria for ideal partner
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Share complete romantic history
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Get them excited about love life goals
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Overjoyed
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Share dream love life plans
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Overjoyed
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Admit being extremely attracted
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Overjoyed
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Share a romantic but morbid story
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Gloomy
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Whisper sweet nothings
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Gloomy
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Give gloomy compliment
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Gloomy
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Mock people's dating habits
ImportantCan failTargeted
Requires(Personality: Grumpy AND Personality: Gloomy)
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Share love life goals excitedly
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Energetic
OutcomesTogether Bar Speed X3
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Come up with the perfect pickup line
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Energetic
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%
Talk about romantic song
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard
Talk about favorite love song
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard
Talk about gaining muscle recently
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard
Compliment muscle gain
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard
Discuss best restaurants for first dates
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard
Discuss best food for a date night
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard
Talk about dating apps
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Technology
Type: Standard
Debate about best “spicy” classic paintings
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: ArtOther: Personality: Art
Type: Standard
Mention wanting to draw a portrait of them
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Art
Type: Standard
Attempt risky flirty joke
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Attempt to gauge interest (risky)
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Confess attraction
ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Mention loving spending time together
ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Compliment personality
ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Compliment talents and skills
ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Hint at physical intimacy
ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Look at tenderly
ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Share favorite music when getting intimate
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard
Talk about having romantic thoughts when listening to music
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard
Brag about being in shape
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard
Hint at physical attraction
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard
Mention wanting to cook for them
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard
Joke about them looking tasty
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard
Discuss the role of technology in modern relationships
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Technology
Type: Standard
Joke about wanting to ''study'' their curves
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Art
Type: Standard
Mention being artistically inspired by them
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Art
Type: Standard
Compliment outfit (flirty)
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual
Compliment hairstyle (flirty)
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual
Compliment mood (flirty)
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual
Compliment muscles (flirty)
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual
Impress with charismatic pickup line
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Impress with good physique
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Impress with creativity
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Impress intellectually
NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard
Propose
Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
Requires((Relationship: Lover))
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2Together Card Happy+2
Type: Standard
Invite to move in
Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2
Type: Standard
Ask if they want to try for a baby NOW
Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
Requires((Relationship: Lover))
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2
Type: Standard
Propose (with ring)
Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancée|Fiancé|Betrothed]
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2Together Card Happy+2Together Card Embarassed+2
Type: Standard
Offer flowers
Very ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Response
Say “I love you”
Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard
Go for a passionate kiss
Very ImportantTargeted
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+1Just Got Intimate Or Kissed
Type: Standard
Reminisce about first meeting
Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard
Talk about time spent together
Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard
Enjoy romantic time playing music together
Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: MusicPersonality: Music
Type: Standard
Enjoy romantic time exercising together
Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: FitnessOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Fitness
Type: Standard
Enjoy romantic time using technology together
Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: TechnologyOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Technology
Type: Standard
Enjoy romantic time making art together
Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: ArtOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Art
Type: Standard
Wink knowingly
Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard
Say they'd make a good co-parent
Extremely ImportantTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Good with Family
OutcomesHappy+2Flirty+2
Type: Standard
Express how you'll always be there for them
Extremely ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Good at Taking Care of Others
OutcomesHappy+2Flirty+2
Type: Standard
Declare unending love
Extremely ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsPersonality: Overjoyed
OutcomesHappy+3Flirty+3
Type: Standard
Flirt expertly
Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Expert Flirt
Type: StandardCooldown: 300s
Tell Interesting Date Story
Very Important
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic Relationships
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+1
Type: Standard
Share romantic weekend idea
Very Important
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic Relationships
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+1
Type: Standard
Random Secret Crush
Normal
RequiresOther: Personality: Good at Romantic Relationships
Type: Response
Compliment existential dread (flirty)
NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Emotion: Sad
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2
Type: Contextual
Flirt “as a joke”
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Jester
Type: Standard
Joke about dating (risky)
ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: JesterEmotion: Amused
OutcomesEmbarassed+5
Type: Standard
Ask if they want to have children together in the future
NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not Prospective Co-Parent
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+4
Type: Contextual
Propose
NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancée|Fiancé|Betrothed] + Relationship: Not Spouse
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2Together Card Happy+2
Type: Contextual
Invite to move in
NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+4Together Card Embarassed+2
Type: Contextual
Slow dance
ImportantTargeted
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2
Type: Standard
72 CARDS CAN FAIL
Success Chance Modifiers
stack the oddsCards marked “can fail” roll their base chance plus every matching modifier below. Positive values raise the odds, negative values lower them - all in percentage points.
Flirt
used by 56 cards in this category+25Flirt Success+25%+15Charisma >= 4+10Compatible Vibe Trait+10Romantic Relationship Tip+10Expert Relationship Tip+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Charisma = 3+5Romantic Interest (per level)+5Talent+5target is Flirty+5Ex-Lover+5Charisma = 2+3Friend (per level)+3Coworker (per level)+3Household Member (per level)+3target is Amused+3target is Happy+2From Get To Know+1Good At Making Friends+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Enemy-10Charisma = 0-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-20Incompatible Vibe Trait-25They Dont Know Each Other
Risky Flirt
used by 4 cards in this category+25Flirt Success+25%+15Charisma >= 4+10Compatible Vibe Trait+10Romantic Relationship Tip+10Expert Relationship Tip+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Charisma = 3+5Romantic Interest (per level)+5Talent+5target is Flirty+5Ex-Lover+5Charisma = 2+3Friend (per level)+3Coworker (per level)+3Household Member (per level)+3target is Amused+3target is Happy+2From Get To Know+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry+1Good At Making Friends-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-10Enemy-10Charisma = 0-20Incompatible Vibe Trait
Confirm Relationship
used by 3 cards in this category+15Romantic Interest (per level)+15Already Had Physical Intimacy+15Charisma >= 4+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Ex-Lover+10Target Had Promotion+10Charisma = 3+5Charisma = 2+3Happy+3Inspired+3Amused+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Enemy-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-10Charisma = 0
Flirty Introduction
used by 1 cards in this category+25Flirt Success+25%+15Charisma >= 4+10Charisma = 3+10Compatible Vibe Trait+10Romantic Relationship Tip+10Expert Relationship Tip+10Good at Romantic Relationships+5Charisma = 2+5Romantic Interest (per level)+5Talent+5target is Flirty+5Ex-Lover+3Friend (per level)+3Coworker (per level)+3Household Member (per level)+3target is Amused+3target is Happy+2From Get To Know+1Sad+1Angry+1Good At Making Friends+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Charisma = 0-10Good at Nothing-10Enemy-10Good at Nothing-20Incompatible Vibe Trait
Commit Relationship
used by 7 cards in this category+20Lover (per level)+15Charisma >= 4+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Ex-Lover+10Target Had Promotion+10Charisma = 3+5Charisma = 2+3Happy+3Inspired+3Amused+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Enemy-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-10Charisma = 0
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Flirty FAQ
quick answersHow many flirty Together Cards are in Paralives?
There are 89 flirty Together Cards in Paralives Early Access build 1. 72 of these cards have a success chance and can fail.
What do flirty cards do in Paralives?
Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.
Can flirty cards fail in Paralives?
Yes - 72 of 89 flirty cards have a success chance. When a card fails, the outcome differs from success, often applying different status effects or conversation tags.
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