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Flirty Cards

89 in the deck

Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships. Browse all 89 Paralives flirty Together Cards.

Drop frequency

Weight distribution

who shows up most
  • Important

    44(49%)

  • Normal

    24(27%)

  • Very Important

    12(13%)

  • Extremely Important

    9(10%)

89 cards

All Flirty cards

the full deck

89 total

Ask if single (flirty)

NormalTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Lover
Type: Contextual

Flirt

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Mention having a good time

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Compliment Vibe

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Attempt risky pick-up line

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Ask if they would like someone in their life

Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

First kiss

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Kissing Partners + Relationship: Romantic Interest
OutcomesEmbarassed+1Together Card Flirty+3
Type: StandardBase chance: 999%

Get intimate for the first time

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Intimacy Partners + Relationship: Romantic Interest
OutcomesEmbarassed+1Together Card Flirty+3
Type: Standard

Ask to be in a relationship together

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Not Lover + Relationship: Romantic Interest
OutcomesEmbarassed+1Together Card Flirty+3
Type: Standard

Introduce yourself in a flirty manner

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic Relationships
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2
Type: StandardIgnores cooldownCooldown: 0sBase chance: 25%

Ask about love life

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Talk about relationships

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Ask for dating advice

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Express love life goals

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Share detailed future love life plans

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Talk about hormones and oxytocin

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Share long list of criteria for ideal partner

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Share complete romantic history

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Serious
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Get them excited about love life goals

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Overjoyed
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Share dream love life plans

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Overjoyed
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Admit being extremely attracted

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Overjoyed
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Share a romantic but morbid story

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Gloomy
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Whisper sweet nothings

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Gloomy
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Give gloomy compliment

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Gloomy
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Mock people's dating habits

ImportantCan failTargeted
Requires(Personality: Grumpy AND Personality: Gloomy)
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Share love life goals excitedly

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Energetic
OutcomesTogether Bar Speed X3
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Come up with the perfect pickup line

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Energetic
Type: StandardBase chance: 25%

Talk about romantic song

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard

Talk about favorite love song

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard

Talk about gaining muscle recently

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard

Compliment muscle gain

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard

Discuss best restaurants for first dates

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard

Discuss best food for a date night

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard

Talk about dating apps

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Technology
Type: Standard

Debate about best “spicy” classic paintings

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: ArtOther: Personality: Art
Type: Standard

Mention wanting to draw a portrait of them

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Art
Type: Standard

Attempt risky flirty joke

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Attempt to gauge interest (risky)

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Confess attraction

ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Mention loving spending time together

ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Compliment personality

ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Compliment talents and skills

ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Hint at physical intimacy

ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Look at tenderly

ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Share favorite music when getting intimate

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard

Talk about having romantic thoughts when listening to music

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Music
Type: Standard

Brag about being in shape

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard

Hint at physical attraction

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Fitness
Type: Standard

Mention wanting to cook for them

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard

Joke about them looking tasty

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Food
Type: Standard

Discuss the role of technology in modern relationships

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Technology
Type: Standard

Joke about wanting to ''study'' their curves

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Art
Type: Standard

Mention being artistically inspired by them

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Art
Type: Standard

Compliment outfit (flirty)

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual

Compliment hairstyle (flirty)

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual

Compliment mood (flirty)

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual

Compliment muscles (flirty)

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Contextual

Impress with charismatic pickup line

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Impress with good physique

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Impress with creativity

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Impress intellectually

NormalCan failTargeted
Type: Standard

Propose

Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
Requires((Relationship: Lover))
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2Together Card Happy+2
Type: Standard

Invite to move in

Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2
Type: Standard

Ask if they want to try for a baby NOW

Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
Requires((Relationship: Lover))
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2
Type: Standard

Propose (with ring)

Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancée|Fiancé|Betrothed]
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2Together Card Happy+2Together Card Embarassed+2
Type: Standard

Offer flowers

Very ImportantCan failTargeted
Type: Response

Say “I love you”

Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard

Go for a passionate kiss

Very ImportantTargeted
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+1Just Got Intimate Or Kissed
Type: Standard

Reminisce about first meeting

Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard

Talk about time spent together

Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard

Enjoy romantic time playing music together

Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: MusicPersonality: Music
Type: Standard

Enjoy romantic time exercising together

Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: FitnessOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Fitness
Type: Standard

Enjoy romantic time using technology together

Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: TechnologyOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Technology
Type: Standard

Enjoy romantic time making art together

Very ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: ArtOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Art
Type: Standard

Wink knowingly

Very ImportantTargeted
Type: Standard

Say they'd make a good co-parent

Extremely ImportantTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Good with Family
OutcomesHappy+2Flirty+2
Type: Standard

Express how you'll always be there for them

Extremely ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Good at Taking Care of Others
OutcomesHappy+2Flirty+2
Type: Standard

Declare unending love

Extremely ImportantTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsPersonality: Overjoyed
OutcomesHappy+3Flirty+3
Type: Standard

Flirt expertly

Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Expert Flirt
Type: StandardCooldown: 300s

Tell Interesting Date Story

Very Important
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic Relationships
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+1
Type: Standard

Share romantic weekend idea

Very Important
RequiresPersonality: Good at Romantic Relationships
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+1
Type: Standard

Random Secret Crush

Normal
RequiresOther: Personality: Good at Romantic Relationships
Type: Response

Compliment existential dread (flirty)

NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Emotion: Sad
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2
Type: Contextual

Flirt “as a joke”

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: Jester
Type: Standard

Joke about dating (risky)

ImportantCan failTargeted
RequiresPersonality: JesterEmotion: Amused
OutcomesEmbarassed+5
Type: Standard

Ask if they want to have children together in the future

NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not Prospective Co-Parent
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+4
Type: Contextual

Propose

NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancée|Fiancé|Betrothed] + Relationship: Not Spouse
OutcomesTogether Card Embarassed+2Together Card Flirty+2Together Card Happy+2
Type: Contextual

Invite to move in

NormalCan failTargeted
RequiresOther: Relationship: Lover
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+4Together Card Embarassed+2
Type: Contextual

Slow dance

ImportantTargeted
OutcomesTogether Card Flirty+2
Type: Standard

72 CARDS CAN FAIL

Success Chance Modifiers

stack the odds

Cards marked “can fail” roll their base chance plus every matching modifier below. Positive values raise the odds, negative values lower them - all in percentage points.

Flirt

used by 56 cards in this category
+25Flirt Success+25%+15Charisma >= 4+10Compatible Vibe Trait+10Romantic Relationship Tip+10Expert Relationship Tip+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Charisma = 3+5Romantic Interest (per level)+5Talent+5target is Flirty+5Ex-Lover+5Charisma = 2+3Friend (per level)+3Coworker (per level)+3Household Member (per level)+3target is Amused+3target is Happy+2From Get To Know+1Good At Making Friends+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Enemy-10Charisma = 0-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-20Incompatible Vibe Trait-25They Dont Know Each Other

Risky Flirt

used by 4 cards in this category
+25Flirt Success+25%+15Charisma >= 4+10Compatible Vibe Trait+10Romantic Relationship Tip+10Expert Relationship Tip+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Charisma = 3+5Romantic Interest (per level)+5Talent+5target is Flirty+5Ex-Lover+5Charisma = 2+3Friend (per level)+3Coworker (per level)+3Household Member (per level)+3target is Amused+3target is Happy+2From Get To Know+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry+1Good At Making Friends-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-10Enemy-10Charisma = 0-20Incompatible Vibe Trait

Confirm Relationship

used by 3 cards in this category
+15Romantic Interest (per level)+15Already Had Physical Intimacy+15Charisma >= 4+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Ex-Lover+10Target Had Promotion+10Charisma = 3+5Charisma = 2+3Happy+3Inspired+3Amused+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Enemy-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-10Charisma = 0

Flirty Introduction

used by 1 cards in this category
+25Flirt Success+25%+15Charisma >= 4+10Charisma = 3+10Compatible Vibe Trait+10Romantic Relationship Tip+10Expert Relationship Tip+10Good at Romantic Relationships+5Charisma = 2+5Romantic Interest (per level)+5Talent+5target is Flirty+5Ex-Lover+3Friend (per level)+3Coworker (per level)+3Household Member (per level)+3target is Amused+3target is Happy+2From Get To Know+1Sad+1Angry+1Good At Making Friends+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Charisma = 0-10Good at Nothing-10Enemy-10Good at Nothing-20Incompatible Vibe Trait

Commit Relationship

used by 7 cards in this category
+20Lover (per level)+15Charisma >= 4+10Good at Romantic Relationships+10Ex-Lover+10Target Had Promotion+10Charisma = 3+5Charisma = 2+3Happy+3Inspired+3Amused+1Sad+1Angry+1Target Sad+1Target Angry-3Embarrassed-3Uncomfortable-3Uncomfortable-3Embarrassed-10Enemy-10Good at Nothing-10Good at Nothing-10Charisma = 0

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quick answers
How many flirty Together Cards are in Paralives?
There are 89 flirty Together Cards in Paralives Early Access build 1. 72 of these cards have a success chance and can fail.
What do flirty cards do in Paralives?
Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.
Can flirty cards fail in Paralives?
Yes - 72 of 89 flirty cards have a success chance. When a card fails, the outcome differs from success, often applying different status effects or conversation tags.

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Data extracted from Paralives Early Access game files (build 1). Stats and counts verified against the shipped catalog.